It's all about Attitude.

Every single person irrespective of caste, colour, century and money possess ‘attitude’ because it is not about ‘how they think?’ but it is about ‘why they think?’ and this ‘WHY’ is the foundation made of their life’s experiences.

In psychology, attitude is a psychological construct, a mental and emotional entity that inheres in or characterizes a person. They are complex and are an acquired state through experiences. It is an individual redisposed state of mind regarding a value and it is precipitated through a responsive expression towards oneself, a person, place, thing or event which in turn influences the individual’s thought and action. Prominent psychologist Gordon Allport described this latent psychological construct as “the most distinctive and indispensable concept in contemporary social psychology.” - Wikipedia

It's all about attitude.

Attitude is one of those key factors which drive our life either in good or bad way depending on situation and especially attitude itself.

What I want to discuss here is a relatable subject. Generally, people talk about attitude in negative sense like if someone says that you’ve attitude means it is not good in social aspect of your life and you should work on it but it doesn’t mean that you’re socially not fit. It is just an opinion of one or few people who might don’t know you exactly. Who you’re and how you became the person you’re?

If you’re fit then everyone can see it and they will say the same but if you’re not so well then, those people can again see that and they will say the truth either you like it or not. Similarly, if your attitude is socially unfit then it can’t just be an opinion of few people but it will be voice of the whole crowd. So, if you’re overthinking just because of the opinion of those few people whose work is to give judgement on anything and everything without even qualified for that, then you really need to work on yourself and change the way you’re.

Attitude is part of everyone’s personality which we can’t ignore so we really need to understand this concept and stop our childish mind to misunderstand our closed ones. We mostly got hurt at the time when we don’t want to and the reason is our mind, which only want to listen whatever we’re expecting subconsciously from another person but unfortunately neither we acknowledged it nor our partner. And the situation we face after that is only influenced by our state of mind which is somehow influenced by our attitude towards our life. Because now you understand this idea of attitude in depth and broad way, you can understand how a person build it and get influenced by it all his life without any control over it. So, it’s totally up to you what you want to choose; understand or misunderstand.

And the last thing which I especially want to discuss is if voice of crowd is in your favour then why those few people are saying or taking your attitude in a negative way? What do you think?

What I believe is the coin has two faces so possibly they can be right in some cases like if they are really your well-wisher and you’re sure that they can’t be the reason of negativity in your life then you should definitely listen to him and do the needful for your goodwill.

But if it is not like that then that must be their ego which influencing them subconsciously to take your attitude in a negative way. For example, if I admire someone then possibly, I’ll not take their tough gesture as their negative attitude or in a negative way and it happens sometime in our life or in our surrounding. So, it is really very careful matter to chose people in your life and similarly, it happens with us also.

Like if I think that some another person has really negative attitude then that can be my ego not his attitude.

It is really very important and remarkable gap or difference which we need to understand to work on, to be the best possible version.

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