It's all about Attitude.

Every single person irrespective of caste, colour, century and money possess ‘attitude’ because it is not about ‘how they think?’ but it is about ‘why they think?’ and this ‘WHY’ is the foundation made of their life’s experiences.

In psychology, attitude is a psychological construct, a mental and emotional entity that inheres in or characterizes a person. They are complex and are an acquired state through experiences. It is an individual redisposed state of mind regarding a value and it is precipitated through a responsive expression towards oneself, a person, place, thing or event which in turn influences the individual’s thought and action. Prominent psychologist Gordon Allport described this latent psychological construct as “the most distinctive and indispensable concept in contemporary social psychology.” - Wikipedia

It's all about attitude.

Attitude is one of those key factors which drive our life either in good or bad way depending on situation and especially attitude itself.

What I want to discuss here is a relatable subject. Generally, people talk about attitude in negative sense like if someone says that you’ve attitude means it is not good in social aspect of your life and you should work on it but it doesn’t mean that you’re socially not fit. It is just an opinion of one or few people who might don’t know you exactly. Who you’re and how you became the person you’re?

If you’re fit then everyone can see it and they will say the same but if you’re not so well then, those people can again see that and they will say the truth either you like it or not. Similarly, if your attitude is socially unfit then it can’t just be an opinion of few people but it will be voice of the whole crowd. So, if you’re overthinking just because of the opinion of those few people whose work is to give judgement on anything and everything without even qualified for that, then you really need to work on yourself and change the way you’re.

Attitude is part of everyone’s personality which we can’t ignore so we really need to understand this concept and stop our childish mind to misunderstand our closed ones. We mostly got hurt at the time when we don’t want to and the reason is our mind, which only want to listen whatever we’re expecting subconsciously from another person but unfortunately neither we acknowledged it nor our partner. And the situation we face after that is only influenced by our state of mind which is somehow influenced by our attitude towards our life. Because now you understand this idea of attitude in depth and broad way, you can understand how a person build it and get influenced by it all his life without any control over it. So, it’s totally up to you what you want to choose; understand or misunderstand.

And the last thing which I especially want to discuss is if voice of crowd is in your favour then why those few people are saying or taking your attitude in a negative way? What do you think?

What I believe is the coin has two faces so possibly they can be right in some cases like if they are really your well-wisher and you’re sure that they can’t be the reason of negativity in your life then you should definitely listen to him and do the needful for your goodwill.

But if it is not like that then that must be their ego which influencing them subconsciously to take your attitude in a negative way. For example, if I admire someone then possibly, I’ll not take their tough gesture as their negative attitude or in a negative way and it happens sometime in our life or in our surrounding. So, it is really very careful matter to chose people in your life and similarly, it happens with us also.

Like if I think that some another person has really negative attitude then that can be my ego not his attitude.

It is really very important and remarkable gap or difference which we need to understand to work on, to be the best possible version.

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What is MOTIVATION?

I always say and strictly believe that “A motive to innovation is MOTIVATION”. It is as simple as that. You just need to understand this concept to be successful in long run. People mostly search for motivation in outside world which is nothing more than waste of time. Whatever we get from this materialistic world in anyway or in any form don’t stay longer. It is in its nature.

If you’re reading this article for the sake of motivation, please don’t bother yourself because you’ll get nothing.

This article can definitely give you clarity in your mental space to understand and to get that motivation from your inner source which will help you in marathon of your life instead of motivating you which generally don’t helps more than a couple of days or a few weeks.

Whenever you’re motivated to do something, just try to understand the basic behind that. Can you be motivated without any reason? Think about it.

Every person needs a goal to be motivated and that’s what I said above in simpler form. If you’ve something innovative in your mind to work on then that thought will keep you motivated until you achieve your goal.

Here, innovation doesn’t mean to do something which no one even tried or thought before. That’s a different thing but here it means that idea should be new and different for inner you which might be done by thousands of people before but never even tried by you.

Now, it’s totally up to you that motivation will work or not. Is it sustainable enough to help you in some way? Because strength of motivation is directly proportional with the importance of goal for you and vice versa. If the goal is much important then that will keep you motivated to work on without giving any excuses about why you can’t do that?

So, it is really important to think about ‘WHY’ before setting up your goals. Your ‘WHY’ should definitely be stronger than your issues because that will only keep you motivated to stick with your goals.

Rule No.01 Find out your ‘WHY’?  Now, what’s next?

Find the next Rule. Nope, just kidding.

When you’ll get your ‘WHY’, you’ll understand psychology behind it. Thousands and thousands of people are watching these so-called motivational videos these days online but how many of them are really getting any result from it? If those viewers are not getting any benefit then why do people are still searching for the same? Because our vision is not that longer. Everything happens in human mind is depends on some psychology behind it. We just need to train our mind to trigger that emotion on its own without any external source.

If you seek motivation in life means you seek reason to live. Mind it.

Now, you have a goal and a strong reason behind it to work for, means you already have motivation. You’re free of those long boring lectures to boost up your motivation.

The path of success needs destination which you’ve as your goal, needs fuel which you’ve as your motivation. Now, you only need to drive your vehicle means your life consistently with a constant speed and balance to reach there.

Rule No.02 Start your journey irrespective of anything and everything.

You already have enough rules to follow which is not that easy but also not so tough at the same time.

This journey can be fun if you’ll try to feel that kinky air while driving.

Do you still need to watch those long motivational videos to do something in your life? I don’t think so.

You have enough reason to be motivated in your life. Find your own source of motivation because that can only work for you in real sense.

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Prediction - Myth about a fact.

Wikipedia says, “A Prediction is a statement about a future event. They are often, but not always, based upon experience or knowledge. There is no universal agreement about the exact difference from estimation; different authors and disciplines ascribe different connotations.”


Even my opinion also resonates around this only. Prediction is nothing more than a guess based on some facts and experiences. A guess about anything or everything around us & Maybe about us and I accept that somehow, it works sometime in some situations but on other hand, I believe that truth is an eminent fact and there always been a gap between a guess and a fact like we can’t guess about someone’s emotion but we can guess about their reaction on that respective emotion. we should always keep it in mind that reaction is always depends on our action as same like prediction. So, it’s good to focus on the action rather than any prediction which eventually depends on that action only.


“The future is like a corridor into which we can see only by the light coming from behind.” Said by Edward Weyer Jr.


Actually, we never realized that we don’t need any Astrologer or Tarot Card reader to predict anything about our near future. Why? Can you guess?


Let’s start from the scratch. Future is the event which is still to come. I’ll make it simpler for you. Let me tell you a story about it.


A person has a dream to own a Ferrari from his childhood and luckily, he arranged all the money by today in the age of 49. Tomorrow is his 20th marriage anniversary So he thought to get his dream car on his very special day and take her wife on a long drive, as she always wanted to go on a romantic drive date. He was so excited. He worked hard and hard without skipping a single day to fulfil each & every need and the dream of his family but never shared his very own dear wish with anyone. He finished his dinner and went for sleep as usual but she sensed some different spark in him today. After all she saw him growing old not only physically but emotionally too. She can listen to his heart and read his mind without uttering a single word like generally all the wives do. So, she understood but decided to talk about it later in the night personally. Now she is also curious to know about the fact which is making her husband enthusiastic after such a long marriage. She was like “I’m still alive dude. what are you so excited about?” Jokes apart but when she finally enters their bedroom after finishing her deadly work to talk about it. He was snoring. He was snoring so badly that she went to sleep on the sofa in the outside area with her curious thought. Next morning, he woke up before everyone else in the house, took bath and leave to somewhere in hurry. When she woke up, she run to the bedroom to wake him up and wish him first before he does, but she realized that she was late. She searched for him everywhere in the house, in the garden and on the roof but he was nowhere. Now her curious thought was making her worried about him because this was not like his usual days. He never did like this in the last 20 years. Suddenly, a man holding a huge bouquet standing aside of the huge wall of balloon shouting something outside of her house. She went to see who the hell is shouting there? But surprised, when she saw hidden Ferrari behind that balloon wall and the man of her life standing with bouquet asking for a drive date. She was mesmerized and remembering the day when he proposed her to get marry. It’s like the same. Nothing changed even after so many years especially that love. After that she went on a drive date in the same night clothes with him. A couple might not dress well but looked perfect.


What? You thought to get some conclusion at the end of story. Seriously! You can ask to any writer in this world dear; Story never ends.


But my point is whatever you’ve today or you’ll get tomorrow is the result of your deeds. I agree that a lot of other factors also affect our life in some way because this whole world is connected either you agree or not. Even if you’re doing nothing means you’re doing that and whatever you’ll do today will make your tomorrow. So, it’s good to work today accordingly instead of wasting your time in the dilemma of prediction. After all, it’s about your tomorrow which you’re making today.


Take your own responsibility.
Aham Brahmasmi (अहम् ब्रह्मास्मि)


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